So I spent my evening last night "babysitting" my MIL so my FIL could go out for a drink with his friends. Reminder-MIL is losing sensation in hands/arms/legs/feet, so she can't really do anything for herself.
So I went over at 5:30 and left about 8. We talked for a while and then someone came to pray with her. After that we started to watch a movie. We didn't get through the whole movie, but nonetheless, I actually had a good time with her last night.
I have a tendency to make a joke or laugh about everything, mostly to distract people from feeling bad. So my FIL had put her on the toilet and when she was finished, she was complaining that there was paper stuck between her legs. So he's over there on his knees spreading her legs looking for paper. I said "She's just trying to make you look at her peepee". They both crack up laughing! She throws back that he teases her with his "stuff" to try to motivate her to reach up for it, so he deserves the tease. OMG sometimes they are a trip! When I told Matt this story he was plugging his ears the whole time!